Rod Khleif: You happened to create that burning desire, but it’s never about the goals. It’s about who you become on your path to your goals, right? Happiness comes from progress and growth. Tim is one of the most authentic and genuine people I’ve ever met. Sincerely believe he’s coming from a position of giving and that means a lot. You’re going to make huge progress.
Tim Mai: Welcome to today’s capital raising show. I’m your host Tim Mai and today I have. An amazing guest, a good friend of mine that I’ve gotten to know for a long time. And yeah, he’s an extraordinary human being. I have his bio here in front of me.
Rod Khleif: Oh, please God, don’t read that.
Tim Mai: I’m just gonna, I’m just gonna introduce him, from who I know of him. Amazing business owner, and one of the best and most amazing philanthropists. He has founded the tiny hands’ foundation benefit. Benefited more than 110, 000 Children in need. Amazing. And what’s not on his bio that Rod, you need to add this on your bio.
He’s a super husband. I’ve never seen a husband that is More expressive in praising his wife and like always, talks about how great she is and how blessed he is to have her. And I get so inspired, and it makes me want to be a better husband watching you. And so you need to add that to your bio.
Rod Khleif: Thank you. Thank you. It doesn’t help. It doesn’t hurt that she’s so freaking gorgeous, but yeah. And I’m a visual guy, so there is that, but no, she’s more beautiful on the inside than the outside. So Rod’s a lucky boy.
Tim Mai: Yes. And yeah, Rod has accomplished so much on over 2, 000 properties.
And, he, Rod, talks a lot about mindset. I know this call was about capital raising and a lot of times when we interview others on this call we talk a lot about strategies and tactics. But we’re going to talk a lot about mindset today because Rod not only uses mindset to succeed but he uses mindset.
To recover from a massive 50 million loss in the 2008 market crash. And I have, yeah, I have bounced back and so much more since then. And so with that, let’s give Rod a big welcome y’all. Welcome Rod.
Rod Khleif: Thank you, guys. Thank you. Thank you. Am I? I’m ready to present.
I’m ready to present. I didn’t know if we were going to do this like an interview or not, but why don’t I start by telling a little bit of my story? Yeah. You talked about it briefly. So I’m an immigrant guy. I was born in the Netherlands, Holland, with wooden shoes, and windmills. I immigrated when I was 6 years old with my brother, Albert, and my mother’s Vansha.
Ended up in Denver, Colorado, where I lived for 30 years and we didn’t have much when we got there. We struggled. We remember eating expired food and then we shopped at an expired food store. They had them back then and drank powdered milk with our cereal in the morning, because it was cheaper than real milk.
Trust me, it sounds better than it is. And, I wore clothes in the Goodwill and the Salvation Army through junior high school till I finally got disgusted and lied about my age at Burger King when I was 14 because I was tall so I could get a job flipping burgers and buy my clothes and ultimately buy a car.
And again, some of you on the call may have had it harder than I did. Many people have and maybe have it hard now is a lot of economic uncertainty right now. Call that a slash opportunity. Let me put that slash in there. Uncertainty slash opportunity. But I knew I wanted more back then.
And luckily, my mom had an incredible work ethic. So she babysat kids. So we’d have enough money to eat. We always had a house full of kids way more than we’re probably supposed to. I don’t even know if she was licensed to do it, but she was a great babysitter and loved these kids. And they still followed up with her until she died.
But, she was an entrepreneur with her babysitting money. She invested in the stock market. She invested in IPOs successfully without any formal education. And she also invested in real estate. And her 1st, real estate acquisition was the house right across the street from us. When I was about 14, she paid about 30 grand.
When I was 17, she told me she’d made 20, 000 in her sleep which had gone up to 50, 000. And I was like, what you made 20 grand. This is when 20 grand was a lot of money. Let me just preface that that house sold for 360 about 10 years ago, just to give you an idea. But anyway, I said, you made 20 grand.
You didn’t do anything. Screw college. I’m getting into real estate. So I got into real estate. I got my broker’s license, which you could do back then with education. You didn’t, I could have my own office. I was smart enough not to do that, but I was still living at home. And my first year in real estate, I made maybe eight, 10, 000.
My second year, maybe 000, but my third year I made over a hundred thousand dollars. And I’m going to tell you back in 1980, that was some serious change. So what happened between year two and year three that caused me to 10 X my income? What happened was I, the guy I worked for the broker I worked for, I was dating his daughter and he taught me about mindset and psychology.
Now, really 80 to 90% of your success in anything is just that it’s the mindset and the psychology. I know many of you think it’s technical knowledge and it’s not. Okay. I can tell you, you have to take action with what you learn. You have to push through fear. You have to push through limiting beliefs and so on.
And so he started that journey for me. And then I ended up spending 20 years following Tony Robbins around the planet and being the best in the world at it. it. And, fast forward to today, as Tim said, I’ve owned 2000 houses. I own thousands of apartment units today. And in 2006, my net worth went up 17 million while I slept.
And you might say, wow, cause I said, wow. And I thought I was a freaking real estate, God. I thought I could barely fit my head through a door. I thought I could do no wrong. And when that happens, God of the universe, whatever you believe it, gives you a nice little smack. That was 2008, like Tim said, I lost 50 million in 2008.
And if you listen to my podcast or you come to one of my boot camps you’ll realize I spend a lot of time on mindset because I talk about the mindset. It took that 50 million to lose in the first place, but then maybe as importantly or more importantly, the mindset it took to recover from losing that to the success that I’m blessed to have today.
So I’d love to drill down on that with you. If you guys will humor me for a little bit, talk about some success strategies as what I was thinking. And if you happen to come to 1 of my boot camps, and by the way, I’ll give you guys a great deal. If you want to come, I’ve got a virtual 1 coming up in January, but you’ll find out that the 1st hour and a half is goal-setting on steroids.
Because how the hell do you get anything? If you don’t know what it is, right? You’ve got to know what it is. You want to. With clarity, and then you’ve got to know why you want it. Here’s why. Because you’ve got to create that burning desire. Napoleon Hill talks about it in his book, Think and Grow Rich. You’ve got to create that burning desire so that you push through that fear.
You take action. You make it happen. Or you push through limiting beliefs that you may have. And we all have them. When I immigrated To this country. I didn’t speak English and I got thrown into school. I found out what bullies were for the first time and I got my butt kicked occasionally.
And then my mom proud Dutch woman that she has thought it’d be a great idea to send me to school and, wooden shoes and those leather shorts. The Germans wear it for Oktoberfest. So I got my ass kicked again. And then, the bullies would chase me home from school. Some of them lived on my street and my mom would chase them off with the flies to the water thinking she was helping me the next day, but kicked.
And I came up with this belief system that I wasn’t good enough. I used to ask myself, how can I show them? I’m good enough. And a lot of people have these limiting beliefs. I’m not good enough. I’m not strong enough. I’m not analytical enough. I don’t have enough time. I don’t have enough money.
And guys, the thing I want you to remember is there’s a reason the acronym for belief systems is BS because 99. 9% of them are BS, but we believe they’re real. And again, you have to have that burning desire. Through goal setting and planning and to push through that crap. Okay. And so that’s why that burning desire is so important.
And even if you, by the way, you’ll see my QR code in the corner there. If you click on that QR code, that’s my link tree. And at the bottom of that is my. This is my goal-setting workshop. I do it every year on New Year’s Day, and it’s professionally done. I am not going to try to sell you anything.
If you haven’t done your goals in 6 months or longer, get over there, even if you’re not coming to my boot camp, get over there and do your goals because now’s the perfect time. We’re at the end of the year and. And there’s a guide you can download that is professionally done with music. It’s really good. I’m proud of that.
And even, have your kids do it, have your spouse do it separately, but then see how aligned you are. Are you moving in the same direction? Do you want the same things in life? Very powerful. And so that’s on my link tree at the bottom. Okay. And you’ve got it. You’ve got to do the goals to get started, but then the next step.
Okay. If you have to make a decision. Okay. And I know that sounds simplistic, but when I say a decision, it’s freaking done. Okay. It’s not dipping your toe in the water. No, I’m going to try multifamily or I’m going to try this. No, it is like I’m doing it. Okay. And it’s not one foot in one foot out.
It is freaking done. And when you do that, you’re committed. And when you’re committed, you’re like a train on a track. Now, if you’re just interested in dipping your toe into the water, you’re going to get knocked off track. Okay. But when you’re committed. It’s no longer a dream. It’s an outcome. Okay. And, motivation gets you started, but it’s that commitment that’ll bring you home.
So very important. And with that 100% commitment, you’ll have clarity. You’ll have 100% ownership. You’ll be responsible for everything that happens to you. And so that’s, but it starts with that decision. And by the way, the Latin root for the word decision means to cut off.
If you’re going to attack the Island. You’re burning your ships because you’re taking their damn ships home. Okay. That’s a freaking decision. It’s done. There’s no turning back. That’s what I mean by that. All right. Then you’ve got to take the first step and you analytical ones on the call, you know who you are and you know how you have to check off every single freaking box before you take a step.
Okay. You can’t do that guys. Let me just preface what I, before I keep going, we are possibly in the greatest opportunity we will see in our lifetimes right now. Okay. I know a lot of people think that this thing’s going to bounce back quickly. I don’t, I’m a real bear. And I believe it’s going to be uglier than people think.
And you may not know there are 20 million families right now behind in their utility bills. Jamie Dimon says it’s the head of Bank of America. going to be much worse than people think. Elon Musk says it’s going to be much worse than people think. Of course, Trump has said the same thing, love him or hate him.
Of course, Kiyosaki has been talking about it forever. Eventually, you’ll get it right but he thinks it’s going to be bad, but I do believe we are headed for some significant pain in this country, but with crisis comes opportunity. And there will be everything going on sale guys.
The real estate’s already dropped in it. And there, I was reading a headline yesterday on Facebook Live that said that the single-family home price is dropping 20%. I think it’s going to be more than that. And who was it? The Fed in Wyoming said the recession is going to be severe.
That was his quote. That’s a quote. This is yesterday’s headlines. So again, I don’t want to scare you. I want you to get excited because I’m going to tell you if I hadn’t been hiding under a rock in 2008, nine, I’d be on the back of a 300-foot yacht right now because the greatest money is made in the environment that’s coming.
Okay. And even if it’s just, even if it’s not as bad as I think there’s still going to be an incredible opportunity, at least in pretty much all real estate sectors, I focus on multifamily. By the way, if you don’t listen to my podcast, I’m blessed to say it’s the largest in the world for commercial real estate.
We’re about to hit 15 million downloads and it’s also on that link tree. Check it out. I think you’ll like it. And I do, I’ll talk about that more in a minute. All right. But then you’ve got to take that first step guys. And sometimes that first step can be the hardest step of your life.
Dr. Martin Luther King said you take that first step in faith. And the next step will be revealed. Lao Tzu thousands of years ago said that a journey of 1000 miles begins with a single step, but you’ve got to take it. And here’s the thing. If you are that analytical person, just remember this analogy.
You can drive across the United States at night with your car only seeing 50 feet in front of you. Yes, you may hit some obstacles but, you can make it. It’s the same way with your goals, any of your goals, but you’ve got to take that 1st step. Guys. This life is not a dress rehearsal. Okay. Do not have any regrets.
Don’t be wishing that you take action, and I don’t care if it’s multifamily. Maybe you go buy businesses and what’s coming. Maybe you are a single family. Maybe you do some other real estate asset class, but for God’s sake, get up to speed as fast as you can because if we’re in the thick of it, it’s going to be too late.
So like you’re in the right place here with Tim’s group, but educate yourself as quickly as you can. So build those relationships as quickly as you can so that you can capitalize on what’s coming. Conserve cash right now. I love spoiling my wife, but I told her we’re not spending any big money.
Let me just turn my email off here. We’re not spending any big money right now. Much as I love, that’s my greatest, that’s my love language gifts and she never expects them. But I told her, Baby, we’re going to keep it low because we want to conserve cash right now. But listen, no regrets guys. There was this nurse in Australia, a hospice nurse.
Her name was Bronnie Ware. And so she took care of patients when they were about to die. And she asked him a question. And the question was, do you have any regrets? And she wrote a book about it called the five regrets of Dying. You know what my number one regret was not living the life I could have lived in someone else’s life.
Guys, I can’t think of anything worse than that. Okay. And so you gotta take that first step and I’m going to tell you action mitigates fear. So just take it massively. Reconnection. Yeah, you’ll make some mistakes and you’ll get your nose bloodied. And that’s okay. We learn from that. I call when I don’t call them failures.
I call them seminars. That was a 50-million-dollar seminar. It was a big freaking seminar, but that’s what it is. It’s only a failure. If you don’t get back up or you don’t get the lesson. All right. The next thing I want to talk about is to focus on the most successful people on the planet. Have the highest degree of focus.
Okay. And whenever you have incredible focus, you have incredible success. But here’s the thing. If you’re on this call right now, you’re a leader. And I’m going to tell you right now, the world needs leaders more than ever. We won’t get started on the crap that’s going on politically and all the crap on the news.
But as a leader, you’ve got to. Manager focus and you need to stand guard at the door to your mind and keep the crap out. Okay. Bring in the good stuff because whatever you focus on gets larger, both positive and negative. Okay. I’ll get people to call me and say, how do I get out of student loan debt?
I’m right. Wrong question. How do you make so much money? The debt’s irrelevant, right? They asked Mother Teresa. She was anti-war. She said, no, I’m pro-peace. Do you see what I’m saying? Okay. So it’s super critical that you manage your focus. I remember I built 27 businesses. I was shocked when I counted several tens of millions of dollars worth of spectacular flaming seminars, but we failed on our way to success.
I got to meet the billionaire owner of Spanx, Sarah Blakely, beautiful. The women’s stuff holds all the stuff together for the guys that may not know it started with 5, 000 and she was in Forbes. She’s a billionaire and she told me I met her at her mastermind and she told me that her dad used to ask her every week.
What have you failed at? And I thought, what a freaking awesome question to ask your kids so they don’t fear failure, right? Anyway, back when I was in Denver I had frozen yogurt shops. I had vending carts selling ice cream carts on the 16th street mall in downtown Denver.
I had a carpet cleaning business. I was buying houses and everything suffered because my focus was diluted. Okay. And this, by the way, ties into decision-making as well, managing how many decisions you make. I try to minimize my decisions, which is why you’ll almost always see me in one of these bone, ugly, black V-neck T-shirts, unless my wife puts her foot down and says, no, you’re wearing a real shirt tonight.
But otherwise, one of these things causes me to minimize my decisions, and here’s the problem, I don’t know about you guys, but very often I’ll be. Watch Netflix and I’ll be on my phone scrolling, freaking social media. And that’s what I do. And if it’s a boring part, here’s the problem with that.
Your brain is making those little micro decisions every split second, which kills your focus, your ability to focus. Okay. I get excited about my 15, 000, 000 downloads on my podcast, but I listen to 2 podcasts. 1 of them is Tim Ferris. And the reason I bring that up is I think it’s about 15, 000, 000 a week.
Okay. But 1 of them is Tim Ferris. And the other 1 is Joe Rogan. So I get both sides of the aisle and I try to balance myself politically, but Tim Ferris interviews the best of the best. In the world their particular walks of life, Ray Dalio, the billionaire, CEOs like Mark Zuckerberg and big seals, the biggest companies in the world athletes like Michael Phelps, NBA players, NFL players, actors like Arnold Schwarzenegger, Ed Norton, Jamie Fox, Hugh Jackman.
Just the best of the best in what they do. And I started to hear a pattern. They almost all meditate. What does meditation enhance? Focus, right? So the focus is super, super important guys. I just want to stress that. The next thing I want to mention is positive expectations. I’m going to do my power clip on positive expectations next week, but I do these clips on my podcast.
They’re five minutes, by the way, as it relates to focus and standing guard, your mind, keeping out the crap that’s on the news. Listen to my podcast. Even if you’re not into multifamily every week I do a clip called Own Your Power. It’s five minutes. It’s motivational. I play this music with it. You give me five minutes a week.
I’ll juice you. Okay. And there are some of them there, but I’m doing one on this particular topic, which is a positive expectation. As human beings, we connect through pain. If you came up to me and said, how are you doing? And I said oh my God, I’m freaking fantastic. Life is amazing.
Most people, you guys probably wouldn’t because you’re more evolved, but most people take a step back and say, okay, he’s off his freaking meds. But if you came up to me and said, how are you doing? I said, oh, dude, my back. Oh, shit. I lost 10 grand in the market. Hurt my back. You put your arm around me and say, I feel your brother.
We see we connect that way. Be cognizant of those guys, be very cognizant, but as it relates to positive expectations, expect to win. Yeah. Because if you expect to win or you expect to lose, you’re right. Okay. You’re going to get what you expect when you expect amazing things to happen when you decide what you want and you declare it to God or the universe, God or the universe will conspire to make it happen.
Okay. And so have positive expectations and remember this as well. You choose the meaning of what happens to you. When I lost 50 million, it could have very easily become my story. I use it to teach, but it’s not my identity. It’s not my story. Okay. You choose the meaning you place on something. And the meaning I put on that is I would have never met my extraordinarily beautiful wife if it hadn’t happened.
And so that’s my meaning. Okay. And also remember this. Anything you put and so anything negative that’s happened to you, you can rewrite the meaning you place on it. Okay. I know it sounds like just a mental, mental thing there. And that’s all it is truly. Okay. And again, this is stuff I learned from Tony, but you can choose to, he takes people that are suicidal and has them reconstruct the meaning they placed on what’s going on in their lives.
And so you could easily do it with something that’s happened to you as well. So just remember that also remember. Okay. Anything you put the words I am in front of is an identity statement, and there’s no greater force on the human psyche than the need to remain consistent with how we identify ourselves.
So let me give you an example of this. Okay. There are some signs on my wall. You can see I am successful. I am the best in the world at what I do. I’m a business genius. Now that’s not braggadocious. That’s what I’m aspiring to embody. And I have these in my exercise room. I have it here in my office, and I shout this stuff at the top of my lungs when I’m exercising.
I used to do it running down the street. That’s the question. My kids come to help me via my live events. And that’s the question they get most often just really do that shit. Oh, yeah, we grew up with that. But now I’ve got my exercise room. So nobody has to hear me anymore. But anyway, so again, you choose the meaning you place on stuff.
And if you’ve got some area of your life that you’re trying to improve. Do an I am statement, have it printed, and throw it on your wall. I am courageous. I am healthy and energetic. I am successful. I’m a business genius because again, people will die over their identity and I anything you put the words.
I am in front of us with an identity statement. Now, if you come to my boot camp, we will do 1 of these really powerful identity statements. It can be life-changing. Frankly, my favorite exercise by the way.
Tim Mai: Thank you. That identity statement. I love it. And I went home. Yeah. After attending your event, I went home and I did it with my team here.
Rod Khleif: Nice. Nice. Nice. I think I had your boy read him, didn’t I? Yes, you did. Yeah. I had your boy get up and read it in front of hundreds of people. Yeah. Love it. Love it. Anyway, the next thing I want to talk about as it relates, especially as it relates to multifamily because multifamily is a team sport that you play to your strengths.
Okay. Your strengths are your greatest assets. Don’t focus on building up your weaknesses. Yeah. You have to have some understanding if you’re like me and you can’t even spell the word math. You have to have some understanding of a P and L, but. Okay. But focus on your strengths.
Okay. You are going to hit success much faster if you work on your strengths and you hire a line or partner for your weaknesses. Okay. I will tell you some of the best partnerships I see in this business are an analytical person with an outgoing person. Okay. And, in this multifamily space, there are a lot of hats you can wear.
You can be the person that finds the deals. You can be the person that develops relationships with the brokers. Maybe you do direct-to-owner marketing and your mail and you make your cold call. You could be the person that loves spreadsheets that does the underwriting. You could be the person that does investor relations, raising money, which is why we’re here right here at this equity-raising conference.
By the way, guys, in what’s coming, finding the deals isn’t going to be as hard as finding the money. Just so you know, Tim’s a really smart guy. He got way ahead of this because I’m doing a course on raising money myself. After all, it is going to be the. Things are moving forward. It’s not going to be finding the deals.
It’s going to be not just the equity, the capital for the deal, but also the debt. The debt is also challenging right now. So it’s getting the money for your deals, but you could be the person that handles that. Maybe you’ve got construction experience or management experience or project management experience.
You could be the one involved in asset management. So there are a lot of different hats you can wear, Play to your freaking strengths. Okay. And if you’re not sure what they are, do a Myers Briggs profile or Tony Robbins has something called a disc profile. D I S C. If you search the word Anthony Robbins, D I S C profile, it’s free.
You can get the enhanced version, but the free one is incredibly accurate. Okay. To see what you’re made of. And you can ask your friends to tell you what your weaknesses are right out of the gate, but they can also tell you what your strengths are. Okay. But here’s the thing.
Don’t live someone else’s life. That’s what I’m trying to say here. When you are playing to your strengths, first of all, you love what you do, right? And you never work another day in your life because you’re doing what you love and when you are working to your strengths, you’re passionate. Can you feel a little passion coming from me?
I freaking love this. okay. I have plenty of other things I could be doing right now but trust me, I’m doing good. We have thousands of apartment units and I’m doing good but I love this. Okay. And I like, as I showed you back here, some of the hundreds of thank you cards for my students, my coaching students, my warriors are somewhere upwards of 110, 120, 000 doors that they own now. By the way, let me mention my boot camp while I’m on it here for a second.
Okay. Cause I’ll give you guys a hell of a deal. It’s 97. I don’t sell anything there. It’s virtual. It’s January 21st and the second. So 16 to 18 hours of training, nothing being sold for 97 bucks. And I’ll give you a code. This is from an event I spoke at yesterday, but I’ll give it to you the same deal.
I gave them where you get my deal evaluator software and my document library for that 97 bucks. So if you go to that link tree that QR code or you can go to multifamily boot camp. com, but that, that, it’s on the link tree there. It is at the top of my boot camp and if you use the code CFC, you’ll get the bonuses, the document library, and the deal evaluator software.
And I’m going to tell you, if you come and you don’t love the event, I’ll give you your money back afterward. I don’t mean like it. Freaking love it. Okay. So I’d love to see you there. And I don’t care if you learn from me, but if you’re not fully up to speed on this business yet, you need to get up to speed as fast as you possibly can.
Because again, you have to have the relationships built. You have to understand how to do this business before the soup hits the fan because then it’s going to be too late. You need to get up to speed as fast as you can. But anyway, back to passion. When you love what you do, you’re going to be passionate and influence people.
You have to be passionate, right? So if you’re going to raise money or buy deals when you’re loving what you do, that passion comes out and people want to be around you. Okay. And, success in this business requires the ability to influence. And so that’s why it’s so critical that you work on your strengths and what you love.
Okay. Thank you. And because that passion is the fuel. Okay. And don’t settle, don’t play small. Don’t live someone else’s life. Passion breeds creativity and innovation. Honestly, it minimizes or even eliminates fear, but that’s only if you’re working on what you love. Okay. So please take that to heart.
Yes, you need to have a basic understanding of everything. But you hone in on what you’re good at. When people come to my live events, I have a warrior event. Michael was at it. He actually, Mike Bailey got an award there. We had it, I don’t know, three or four weeks ago.
I had almost 300 of my students, my warriors, and my coaching students there. And we did speed networking. Like you, I think you’re going to do it here. And you’re going to randomly put people together in breakouts. And what I tell people to do is. Tell everybody what your superpower is. What are you great at?
Everybody’s great at something. And that’s 1 of the 1st things I tell you when you’re networking, make sure you let people know what you’re great at. And so you can align with people that supplement where you need to be supplemented. Does that make sense? Yep. The next thing I want to talk about is the peer group.
Now, you’ve got an awesome peer group here, obviously, but here’s the thing you’ve heard this said before: the total of the people you hang out with who you hang out with is who you become. I’m going to tell you, I tell the story of my warrior. I told us about my warrior event when I was losing everything in 2008 and 9, I had already joined Tony Robbins platinum partnership.
And in fact, can you give me the ability to share my screen or do I have it? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You have that ability. Thank you. I have been there with some of the dozens of boot camps and masterminds that I’ve attended over the years. Okay. I never went to college. So this is like my college education.
I wish I’d saved them all. It’s not even all of them. Okay. But the point is. And of course, I’m bragging I’m in front of my Bentley and 1 of my Mercedes, but the point is learners are earners. My friends. You never stop learning. I still do masterminds. I still attend masterminds and boot camps all the time because of that.
Anyway, stop sharing but let’s talk about peer groups. Back when everything was crashing, I joined Tony Robbins platinum partnership. Yeah. And back then it was about 120 grand all in. Okay. And everything was crashing and burning and I was around people that were thriving through the crash.
They were killing it. Okay. And they’re like, Oh, 50 million. You get up and go make something happen now. You think that’s important if the, what hits the fan and what’s coming to be around people like that. You better freaking believe it because I’m going to tell you so many of us default to peers that we went to school with or we grew or we work with or we grew up with and sometimes those people out of their fears or their limiting beliefs or their fear of losing you or their feeler fear feeling less than if you succeed or, we’ll hold you back.
And sometimes it’s family. So I’m going to tell you to love your family, but proactively choose your peers like this incredible group right here, because you want to be around people that lift you that are going to be encouraged by your success, not. feel bad about themselves. If you’re successful, be very careful who you share your dreams with.
Okay. Very important. And get around people that want more out of life like this group. This is why my warriors, my coaching students are so successful. Most of those 110, 120, 000 units were done between warriors. Okay. And because, if you go in that Facebook group, it’s extraordinary.
They’re all pumping each other up when they get a deal instead of feeling jealous, that’s who you want to be around. And I started my mastermind. We met a few weeks ago. Mike Bailey was supposed to come and he couldn’t make it. I don’t know if he’s still on the call here, but he had a hurricane come through and that kind of screwed things up.
But the point is, I started that mastermind for myself. Because I want to be around people that think what I think is hard is easy, right? And that turned into, the largest multifamily mastermind on the planet is about 16 billion in assets there. But it started here in my home.
I had 16 people come to about a billion in assets. I said, let’s just be a mastermind. I paid for the food and the drinks and stuff. I said, let’s see what happens. And it was extraordinary. And this was about, I don’t know, about 4 years ago and now turned into this big thing. All right. So be careful who you hang out with.
All right. Now, how much time do I have? You have much more time. Do I have one? We do. We do want to open up with Q and two.
Tim Mai: So how about 15 minutes?
Rod Khleif: 15 minutes. Sounds good. All right. I can bring it home. I’ll land the plane. Okay. So let’s talk about habits for success. Okay.
One of the gifts, my love language, is gifts. I told you guys that my students get lots of books for me. And one of the books is this book called the slight edge. And it’s about those decisions you make every day. That doesn’t mean much that day, but if you do them over time, they will move your life up or down.
And the easiest example is health. If you’re going to go to McDonald’s every day, you know what direction you’re going, right? So you’ve got to have habits that help you achieve success. And so what’s important is that you consciously think about those, the things that you do every day, maybe, do you have a morning?
Show where you visualize or manifest. I’ll sit in that recliner behind me there. And you can see one of my vision boards right there on the floor next to it. Okay. And I’ll sit there and I’ll be grateful. I’ll say, thank you God for my amazing, beautiful wife, my kids, my coaching students, and my foundation.
And then I’ll be grateful for the things that I want if I already have them. I’ll sometimes even get emotional. Being grateful for things. I don’t even have one yet. And I know I lost some of you analytical ones on that, but ignore that at your peril. This is how I had 50 million to lose. Okay. And how I got it back by stupid shit like that, because it works.
Okay. Just trust me, you call it prayer. If you want, whatever you want, whatever works for you, but it freaking works. Okay. So trust me. That’s a, so that’s a success habit, right? That’s a habit. What I eat every morning. I have vegetable juice. And Kevin was talking about that.
I have vegetable juice every single day. My wife typically makes it. The only time I don’t is when I’m out of town and then I’ll do those athletic greens that Tim Ferriss talks about. But, I’ve been doing it for not exaggerating 30 years. So anyway, success habits, like taking massive action, being proactive on who you allow to associate with in your peer group, focusing on results, not busy work.
Success habit. How many times do you clear off your desk, right? Or I’ll get students, new students, new lawyers who are like, Hey, what do you think of this logo? And I’m like, how many properties do you own? None. How many brokers have you called? None. I don’t want to hear about your freaking logo. Get your ass on the phone and call brokers.
Start looking at deals and evaluating deals. That’s busy work. Okay. And again that’s a common thing. We all fall into that, but that’s what I’m talking about. Success habits, being relationship driven, team driven, staying healthy guys, Got it. To do this side hustle with a core job with kids with a family and you’re doing this on the side takes incredible energy.
Okay. And so it’s not even about health as much as it’s about energy. But, to get energy, you have to have health. So give that, the energy it deserves so that you can grind for a few years. Like most people won’t so you can live the rest of your life. Like most people can’t.
Okay. That’s, but it requires massive energy. All right. The next thing I want to talk about is tenacity and not giving up. Okay. I’ve had lots of business failures again. I call them seminars but tenacity is just staying power. Are you going to get your nose bloodied? Are you going to get your butt kicked?
Are you going to hit walls? Of course, you are. That’s life. That’s how it works. But it’s not giving up. That makes all the difference in the world. I’m going to tell you tenacity beats talent almost all the time. There’s this book called Three Feet from the Gold about a minor that gave up on a mind, literally three feet from a gold vein that made someone else filthy rich.
A true story, actually and so just remember that it’s courage, it’s resolve, it’s strength of character, it’s strength of will. It’s you know it’s deciding, taking action and never giving up. It’s doing what needs to be done. Even if it’s the last thing you feel like doing, it’s grit.
It’s staying focused on the goal. It’s realizing that every setback and failure is nothing but a seminar. It’s nothing but feedback. Okay. And honestly, if you’re not getting that kind of feedback. Respectfully, you’re not trying. Okay. And if you are honest with yourself and look in the mirror, it’s believing in your mission, it’s living with passion and it’s frankly seeking out that feedback.
If you come to my boot camp, you’ll see on Monday after the boot camp, you’ll get a survey from me right away. And 99. 99% of the feedback is super positive. The only complaint I ever get is that the breaks are too short because I’m trying to pack in so much. And I do 15-minute breaks and I promise you they’re harder on me than you.
But. But that’s the only but I’m looking for critical feedback because how do you get better if you don’t get it right? You need to know what’s not working and continue to make these little improvements. So super important. All right. I’m in the last piece here. And what’s funny is I just literally did this today.
I just recorded this today because it’s Thanksgiving weekend and I did my own, your power clip on gratitude guys. Gratitude is the most important emotion for you to embody consistently. Okay. It makes us stronger when we face adversity. Gratitude does. It strengthens our immune system, makes our hearts stronger, lowers our blood pressure, and brings us closer to our spirituality.
You cannot be angry and grateful at the same time. You can’t be fearful or stressed. The achiever’s word for fear is stress. You can’t be stressed. And grateful at the same time. Okay. Gratitude is what attracts everything you want into your life. So you must use it. It is the most important emotion for you to embody.
I remember and I try to journal as much as I can, but I did a gratitude journal really about my wife. I bought this beautiful leather journal. It was about a hundred pages and every day I would write what I loved about her and what I thought. She was what was amazing about her. And there were days I did not want to write that because we were fighting or arguing or something.
But can you imagine how I showed up to the relationship just by focusing on what was amazing about her? And I gave it to her for her birthday, when I filled it up, but so there’s a great exercise for you guys on the call, an incredibly powerful way to blow your woman away. But again, yeah.
And I’ll, like I said, do gratitude in that chair most mornings. I’ll sometimes do it in bed when I’m manifesting what I want. Okay, I’ll leave you with a story and then I’m happy to take questions about and they can be real estate as well. Guys are happy to talk about real estate too.
But honestly, this is so much more important guys. I just trust me on that. Okay. You got to move. You got to take action and make shit happen. Technical things will happen. Okay. But it’s the action that’s the important piece. And that’s why mindset and psychology are so critical, but I want to tell you a story.
When I lived in Denver, I knew I wanted to live on the beach and there’s no beach in Denver, but I would visualize the palm trees and the sand and the surf and the waves. And 20 years later, I built this incredible 20 this 10, 000 square foot mansion on the beach on one side.
And I had my boat lifts on the backside. It was called a Gulf to Bay. It was a slice through an island. And I’m going to tell you that was unthinkable when I was 18, but I made it happen. And so when you do your goals, take the lid off your brain, there’s nothing you cannot do or have nothing. Okay. But anyway, so 20 years later I built that and About 2 months after I moved in now, just let me describe the house.
You just get a visual picture. Okay. 10, 000 square feet wine cellar elevator, giant waterfall from the 2nd-floor balcony into the pool. You had to walk through the waterfall to get into the pool and magazines are spectacular. I had these trees that I bought that were bent out over the pool.
Just spectacular. On the 2nd, it was a giant spiral staircase up through the middle and on the 2nd floor. In the house, I had aquariums custom-made by the same guys, the same company that did Disney’s there was an aquarium thing. Anyway, they were 200 grand, almost 200 grand for these aquariums.
This gives you an idea of the house. Anyway, I’ll stop there, but, and I had, I had the Maserati back then and the Mercedes and the toys and the boats and all the stuff. I had all the stuff. And two months after I moved in, I’m floating in the pool at night and I’m looking up at this testament to my ego, which is really what it was.
I built this house to prove to the world I was good enough. Okay. And my family’s inside sleeping pools changed colors that had fiber optic lighting. It was this, again, this house is spectacular. And I got depressed and I don’t mean just a little depressed. I got depressed.
I’m like, what the hell? I’ve just achieved success like times 10, 000. I had everything people dream about. How could I be depressed? And that’s what I want to share with you. Several things were going on. The first thing is you should never achieve a big goal without having other goals lined up behind it.
The good book says. Without a vision, people perish, you need a vision for the future. And I didn’t know what I was going to do next. So that’s number one. Number two is it’s never about the goals. No, they say the happiest days of a boat owner’s life are the day they buy the boat and the day they sell the boat.
And it’s the same way with your goals. You got to have them, you got to have them to create that burning desire, but it’s never about the goals. It’s about who you become on your path to your goals, right? Happiness comes from progress and growth. And that’s why if you do my goal-setting workshop, as I said, if you click on that QR code at the bottom of that goal-setting workshop, at the end of that, I do my weekly planning process, which is very powerful by the way.
It’s how I managed. Two large companies at the same time, but one of the pieces of that weekly planning is to acknowledge any progress. You may celebrate it because happiness comes from progress and growth, no matter how small it is. And that way, if you have setbacks, so you get locked up on something if you’re still progressing and growing, you’re happy.
Okay. So again, another reason for you to do the goal setting. If you come to my boot camp, I do that as well. I do the planning process. Super powerful. But anyway, okay. So that was going on. But the big thing that was happening was I was focused on Rod. Rod, show the world I’m good enough, show the world I matter.
And that’s the year I met Tony Robbins. And I read, I, so I, what I did is I went out and bought a bunch of books. I’m like, I’m going to get this back. I’m not, I believe in counseling by the way. And therapists back then I didn’t, I wasn’t going to go lay on a couch. That’s how I equated it.
I’m going to read the books and I’m going to get it back. Because of masculine macho, I’m going to get it back myself. One of the books was Tony Robbins. And, I got Zig Ziglar back then and Tom Hopkins and some other sales kind of guys that you may or may not recognize. But I read Tony’s book.
I’m like, man, this is good stuff. I think I only got about halfway through and I went and saw him live in Fort Lauderdale. My brother flew in and joined me and I saw that he fed families for the holidays. And I thought, what is the concept of doing something for someone else? I’m embarrassed to say I had to be 40 to get that memo, but we came back home and I called my brother in Denver and I was going back for Thanksgiving, which is timely right now.
And I said, Hey, let’s feed five families. And so he called his church and found five families that needed help. And we bought toys for the kids. If they had kids, we bought frozen turkeys, roasting pans. We assume they didn’t even have a roasting pan. We, but all, had a lot of fun buying the food.
The third family changed my life. We get up to this row house. It was like a crappy one-bedroom because you go through the living room. Through the bedroom to get to the kitchen, which has the bathroom off. It’s not even a good one. The bedroom was crappy. One bedroom. There was this woman there with five kids, a Hispanic woman, and she comes out and she sees all the stuff on the porch and she just starts crying and her kids come out and two of the older ones start crying and then Rod starts crying and I’m hooked.
And Tim said 000 kids that we have now fed over the last 22 years. We’ve done tens of thousands of backpacks filled with school supplies. We just did 1700 backpacks this last August for local kids that don’t have basic supplies for school. Don’t get me started on living in the greatest country on earth.
They don’t even have school supplies. But I’ve done tens of thousands of teddy bears to local police departments for officers to put in their vehicles. If they encounter a child that’s been traumatized now, I’m not saying this to brag. I’m inviting you to do something. Okay. See, we’ve been taught and I know there’s some of you on this call that you’ve got blood dripping from your teeth.
You want this freaking success. You want the Lamborghini, you want all that stuff so bad, all the stuff that I’ve gotten and had, and trust me. I’ll show you something in a second. But I’m going to tell you that. See, I was successful, but I was unfulfilled, and see, we’ve been taught to believe that we have to succeed to be happy.
Okay. Or achieve happiness. Rather, we have to achieve to be happy, but I’m going to tell you if you incorporate giving back right now. You’ll be happily achieving. And I know it’s a simplistic play on words but I’m going to tell you it’s real. And Tony Robbins calls it the science of achievement versus the art of fulfillment achievements, a science.
Okay. If you want to learn multifamily, come to my freaking boot camp. It’d be drinking through a fire hose. I’m going to tell you, bring your game. The manual is about that thick. It’s not the teasing it’s everything, but that’s a science. I’ll give you the blueprint, the roadmap. You just got to go do it. Okay.
That’s it. That’s a science, but fulfillment is an art. Okay. You’ve got to figure out what juices you have. For me, it’s kids. For some of you, maybe it’s animals, the environment, the elderly, whatever it is, give back right now. Don’t say I’ll do it. When I have money, no, yo, you’ve got money. You can do it.
No. Do it even if it’s just your time, because then you’ll be happily achieving, then you’ll be fulfilled. I’ve interviewed. I will tell you, I’ve interviewed some of the most successful people on the planet in this space. 100, 000 units, 20, 000 units, billionaires. I had a billionaire speak to my mastermind 2 weeks ago as his jet.
A lot of these guys and women as well. And I can tell. If they’re like, I was back then I can see it because I recognize it. After all, it was me there. Yeah, they may be successful in some cases. Now, many of them have evolved, but some of them haven’t and I feel sad for them. Guys, I’m going to tell you when you give back success comes faster.
The money comes faster. Now, you don’t do it for that reason, but that’s the way God works. Whatever you believe, that’s the universe. I don’t care if you believe in God or not, but that’s how it works. Trust me. So I’ll leave you with that. My friends. I’m happy to take questions and take this thing anywhere.
Tim Mai: Yeah. Before we go to the question part. So I. we can wrap this up for the file podcast part of the interview. I do have a question, a quick question for you. So what’s these days, what are you most and I know you love kids, what are you most passionate about these days?
Rod Khleif: Besides my wife I, full disclosure, transparency, my daughter had a massive health scare. She had leukemia in 95% of her bone marrow, and she spent eight months inpatient at Moffitt Cancer Center. She is now in remission, thank God. But I’m very passionate about that.
She comes over almost every day. But I will tell you I’m shifting my focus with my foundation. I’ve been, Feeding I want to teach people how to feed themselves. And so I’m thinking about schools. I’m thinking about building schools, possibly in Latin America, but I’m looking at self-sustaining schools where we buy enough land to have an agricultural infrastructure, or we do some sort of an infrastructure where we spend more money upfront, but the school can actually self sustain because that’s that’s 1 of my dreams.
So I needed it and it’s been a dream for a while. It’s on a vision board back there. I need to make it a reality. In fact, on that note, let me show you something. So this is my planner. Okay. I’m a dinosaur. I use a paper planner. Yes, I know. But on the back of this thing are pictures that have been here for 20 years.
Okay. I am 22 years old. Okay. The 1st pictures are my gratitude pictures. Remember I said it starts from gratitude. My daughter’s 31. My son’s 27, but these are when they were young. They’re all nasty and I need to clean them. But what’s crazy, I lost that house on the beach. I was telling you about it, but this picture looks just like it did before I built it.
Okay. 10-foot high glass like that. 80 feet around at travertine floors. Just like that. It’s crazy. And I lost that and all the craziness. Now, in the bottom picture, I live in a compound. Now, you see the white walls in those pictures see the 2 white wall stone walls. I live in a compound now. I’ve got six buildings.
See the white wall behind me? That’s, this is my backyard. I’ve got six buildings. And because God’s got a sense of humor, the old house that I lost is right across the bay in my backyard. I see it every day. But anyway, but then, other things again, I, this is my visualization watch. I, this is still a vice.
I have a few hundred thousand dollars worth of watches. I still love that. But the Lamborghini before I ever bought it, Rolls Royce, the Bentley, all this stuff that I got because I had pictures. So guys, once you do your goals, Get pictures, put them around you. I’ve got pictures on the wall here of the things that matter to me now.
Okay. Your goals will evolve. If again, you’re offended by what I just said or turned off, replace it with what you want. Okay. This is, I thought this stuff was important to me at one time. It’s not, but I thought it wasn’t one time. So replace it with what you want, because this is how it works guys.
This is how I had 50 million to lose and how I got it back. By the goal of setting the visualization and putting these things in my peripheral. So I always saw their screensaver on my phone. Before I met my wife, I listed exactly what I was looking for in a woman. With exhaustive detail, I was a little bit like an escaped convict after my divorce dating a lot.
And the minute I met her, I knew it was her. Literally, like that because I had visualized it. Okay.
Tim Mai: That’s awesome. There you go. Yeah. So regarding the self-sustaining score, I need to connect you with Frank McKinney.
Rod Khleif: I know Frank very well. He wrote the Forward for my book. I went and visited him over in West Palm. Yeah, that’s awesome. Yeah.
Tim Mai: So we’re building a hero village in Haiti.
Rod Khleif: Yeah. He goes, he’s done several though. He’s done several of those villages. Yeah. Yeah.
Tim Mai: He has done several. Yeah. And then so for the people listening in audio. Where’s the best place for them to connect with?
Rod Khleif: If you want, Oh, I forgot you were doing this as a podcast. So it’s out there now. That’s fine. If you text the word rod to 7, 2 and you’ll get me to my boot camp because you can’t see the link tree here that we’re talking about.
If you text Roger 72345, you’ll get the link to my boot camp, and then just use that code CFC to get those bonuses. And it’s 97 bucks. Like I said, I don’t sell anything and again, I don’t care if you learn from me, but if you drag your heels right now, or you don’t push forward because of fear, I promise you, you’re going to regret it.
I promise you. Awesome. And by the way, if you want to get my link tree, which has got a bunch of free resources as well, just text links. To 7, 5 links to 7, 2, 3, 4, 5, and that’s got a bunch of free resources and my boot camp site. I should have just used that and my podcast and the goal-setting workshop. So text links.
And 2, 3, 4, 5, and you’ll have tons of free stuff, a bunch of free books there. So on and so forth.
Tim Mai: Perfect. Awesome. Rod, thank you so much for doing this podcast with me today. Of course.
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